Have you recently started dating someone new? Are you making sure to put your best foot forward, planning dates that are fun, engaging and allow the two of you to get to know each other better? While you can find plenty of tips online regarding what to do on a first date, there isn’t much help past that. What do you do on those all-important follow-up dates where the two of you are still trying to break the ice?
To take some of the stress out of planning a date, here we’ll take a look at five fun things to do on your third one. The idea is that the two of you are starting to get to know each other better, so you’re past the typical first date activities.
Games Night at Home
The third date may be a good time to have an at-home date. Sure, going out is fun, but if the two of you want to eventually become a couple, then at-home time will be important. To ensure there is no lull in the conversation or awkward silence, it’s a good idea to plan for an activity-based evening in the form of games night. Games night at home is meant to be relaxing, fun, engaging and yet still allows the two of you to carry on a conversation.
Some of the games you may want to play include:
- Enjoy a casino night online, playing all the games you know and love from the brick-and-mortar casino. You can browse this site to learn about the best casino bonuses being offered right now.
- Traditional board games are always a big hit and you can probably fit a couple of different games into one evening.
- Challenge each other to your favorite video games on your gaming console. There are plenty that allow you to play against each other or as a team.
Just be sure that, if you’re going to host a games night at home, you have plenty of tasty snacks and drinks on-hand. You may also want to order a takeout and make it a dinner date.
Cook a Meal Together at Home
Another great way to transition to a date at home rather than out on the town is to cook a meal together. Cooking together can be quite romantic and it also gives you a chance to work together as a team – an important aspect in any successful relationship. You could choose a meal that you are familiar with, or you can make things a bit more interesting and choose something that neither of you has tried cooking before. To prepare for this date, you’ll want to choose the recipe in advance so you can shop for all the ingredients before your date arrives.
Take a Class Together
Speaking of learning something new, why not sign up for a class together? You can pick something that gets you up and moving like a dance class or something more low-key, like a painting class. The idea is that you are trying something new together. It’s all about those firsts as a new couple.
Wine Tasting or Beer Tasting Is Sure to Be a Hit
A very popular date activity over the past few years is to do a tasting event together – this could be wine or beer tasting – whatever suits the two of you. The goal here isn’t to get drunk together; it is to sample things you wouldn’t necessarily order or try on your own. Tastings are meant to be small amounts rather than big glasses. For this type of activity, you may need to do a little research as to where you can go, if you need reservations and so forth. It’s also a good idea to include food at some point.
Be Tourists Together and Check Out the Local Attractions
If you happen to live in a city/town such as Belfast, which has some interesting activities, attractions and sights, why not be tourists together? You can book a guided tour and see things in a whole new light. You may think you know your surrounding area pretty well, but a tour guide can give you an inside look you weren’t even aware of.
Guided tours can be walking, driving/bus, boat tours or any other mode of transportation. Just be sure to give your date notice of the plans so they can dress accordingly, i.e., in comfortable shoes and outerwear.
Any one of these ideas could end up being the perfect activity for a third date, making sure it’s not only successful, but fun. The goal is to enjoy a great time together but also get to know each other better so that there is a fourth date in the very near future.
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